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Individual Therapy (Weekly)
Weekly sessions with a licensed therapist specializing in divorce recovery and attachment patterns. Minimum 6-month commitment.
$200/mo
Divorce Recovery Program
Structured 12-week program addressing grief processing, identity reconstruction, and emotional regulation post-divorce.
$47/mo
Attachment Style Assessment
Professional ECR-R assessment identifying your attachment patterns. Research shows 73% repeat the same pattern without awareness.
$39 one-time
Men's Divorce Support Group
Weekly peer support group. Men who attend show 40% faster emotional recovery per AAMFT research. Free in most metro areas.
Free
Attachment Style Deep Dive
Comprehensive assessment with therapist debrief. Understand anxious, avoidant, or disorganized patterns driving your relationship choices.
$89 one-time
Relationship Readiness Checklist
Research-backed 25-point assessment covering emotional, financial, and co-parenting readiness markers for new relationships.
$19 one-time
Core Values Identification Workbook
Guided workbook to identify non-negotiable values for your next partnership. Couples with aligned values have 5x higher success rates.
$29 one-time
Red Flags Awareness Training
Video course on identifying early warning signs in potential partners. Includes 30 documented patterns from relationship research.
$15 one-time
Co-Parenting Communication Foundations
Script library and boundary framework for productive co-parenting. Based on parallel parenting research from Dr. Amy Baker.
$35/mo
Co-Parenting Communication App
OurFamilyWizard or TalkingParents subscription. Court-admissible communication logs reduce conflict by 65% per family court data.
$12/mo
Kids' Transition Protocol
Research-backed routine for custody exchanges. Reduces child anxiety during transitions by providing predictability and emotional safety.
Free
Online Co-Parenting Course
8-module course covering age-specific strategies, high-conflict navigation, and new partner introduction timelines. Court-accepted in most states.
$149 one-time
Post-Divorce Budget Template
Comprehensive spreadsheet for single-income household budgeting including child support, housing, and retirement recalculation formulas.
Free
Divorce Financial Literacy Course
6-module course: QDRO basics, tax implications, asset division strategies, and credit rebuilding. 38% of men don't understand their settlement.
$79 one-time
Certified Financial Planner Session
One-time consultation with a CDFA (Certified Divorce Financial Analyst) to review settlement, retirement impact, and tax strategy.
$250 one-time
Prenuptial Agreement Prep Guide
Comprehensive guide to prenup conversations, common clauses, and what to protect. Includes conversation scripts for raising the topic.
$25 one-time
Mandatory Dating Break Protocol
Research-backed 12-month minimum dating pause. Rebound relationships within 2 years of divorce have 75% failure rate per Hetherington research.
Free
Communication Skills Workshop
Weekend intensive: Gottman Method communication, conflict repair, and emotional attunement. Skills that predict relationship success.
$199 one-time
Pre-Marital Counseling Program
12-session program with future partner. Covers expectations, finances, conflict resolution, and blended family dynamics. Reduces divorce risk by 30%.
$175/mo
Values Alignment Assessment
Partner comparison tool assessing alignment across 15 core life values. Misaligned values are the #1 predictor of second divorce.
$49 one-time
Monthly Relationship Check-In Protocol
Structured monthly conversation framework. Research shows couples who do regular check-ins are 4.5x more likely to address issues before crisis.
Free
Couples Therapy (Monthly)
Ongoing monthly sessions with a couples therapist. Think of it as maintenance, not repair. Like a relationship tune-up before problems escalate.
$300/mo
Annual Relationship Retreat
Weekend couples retreat for deep reconnection, goal alignment, and relationship skill-building. Annual investment in your partnership.
$800/yr
Anniversary State-of-Union Review
Annual structured conversation guide for reviewing the relationship: wins, challenges, growth areas, and goals for the year ahead.
Free

Compatibility Notes

Selecting both Individual Therapy and Pre-Marital Counseling creates the strongest foundation — research shows combining personal and couples work addresses both individual patterns and relational dynamics. If you have children, Co-Parenting Communication plus the Transition Protocol is essential before introducing a new partner.

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67%
of second marriages end in divorce — higher than first marriages (Bureau of Labor Statistics)
more likely to divorce again if you don't address patterns from the first marriage (Hetherington & Kelly)
30%
lower divorce rate for couples who complete pre-marital counseling before remarriage (Stanford study)
higher success rate when core values are aligned before marriage (Gottman Institute research)
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